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Psycotherapy Development

The space of the death in the conscience can be very distant. Thus, how much at the development we arrive at the phase of the oldness, this is the phase of the human development that loads more negative stigmata and attributes many times seen as phase of the losses, the body of the finances, the productivity and even of the proper family. However, the way to live deeply these losses if ties with the process of development and the conscience of each one. Where the emphasis or the value of this phase in the life is placed or in death? We have observed many people who live of significant form the end of the life, therefore in this time all the experiences if they add. The death as limit in the aid to grow, but the lived deeply death as limit, also is pain, loss of the function, the meats, the affection.

It is also solitude, sadness, poverty. One of the images strongest of the death is of the oldness, represented for old encarquilhada, lean, ossuda, without teeth, a ugly one and fedida. It is a vision that in the cause it repulses and terror. Fear of the Death and I fight the man it possesss a body that feels pain, adoece, ages and it dies. The man lives all its existence with the present death in its dreams, fancies. According to Fiefel and Nagy (1981), no human being is free of the fear of the death, and all the fears that we have are of some form, related it. Fear and anxiety are feelings that are closely on, however, the anxiety does not have pparently defined cause; already the fear generally is on to a more specific cause. According to Hoelter (1979), the anxiety can be to jump stops backwards or coming back to the natural state property for which the energy stored in a deformed body is returned when ceases the .causing tension this elastic deformation.

The adjective resiliente if would apply, then, to everything that that it presents a resistance to the shocks , (Yunes, 2003). The resilience concept, according to Kotliarenco Alvarez and Cceres (1995), through the understanding of the individual differences existing between individuals and of as these differences interacts, depending on some factors, as to per example, the age of the individual, the level of development of the nervous system, the sort, the genetics, the cultural and ambient context. For the Medicine, the resilience is appraised as the capacity of> if of some accident or trauma. A sick person resiliente is that one that has conditions to understand, to surpass, to manage and to create new a sensible one of life, ahead of a hard experience of suffering. For Psychology, the concept defines a set of social and intrapsquicos processes that make possible the people to reveal the maximum of intelligence, health and ability in complex and adverse contexts, under pressure (Poletto, Wagner capacity to surpass for all.

The Ballad

How it goes to distinguish and to filter this pile of things? the country &#039 is this; ' filtro' ' , to take off what it is good of all, or then to transform what it can be bad in a to be prevented example. Is not easy such task, but who said that to educate it is easy? &#039 is one; ' processo' ' , it is all hour, all day, all week, the life all. , therefore if you not to gain its son, the world earn, the competitor of the street has an enormous advantage. He sees as well as acts the dealing one when he wants to bride. In everything it reveals conceivable, while a father looks for to say not in whom he is harmful, aliciador always shows permicividade, is yes pra everything, money is easy, easy to earn easy to spend, the sex and drugs can, to walk of car to the all, can yes, crack in the street, this also can. As everything is there, it fits to who to clarify that all this easiness of ' ' to have and of ' ' pleasure fcil' ' it can bring consequence harmful itself and the society? as to live and to coexist everything this, to know ' ' ter' ' , looking ' ' ser' ' . ' ' Ter' ' , to usufruct of everything this of comprehensive form, measured and not desmedida, to get with the proper efforts being valued the conquest, to know the material, social and economic value, exactly when a cellular one is gained for example. ' ' Ser' ' correct in the use and the right to use, to observe the value of the things. At last, instead of if saying, in my time it was not thus, it had? if to say, looks at goes to have ' ' things, we go to live ' ' coisas' ' , knowing to use, making the call ' ' good uso' '. The cellular one, knowing to use is a good ally, the computer is an excellent educative tool, when used well, the ballad, the party, everything if can, when, we educate in them to have and to use the things, in case that contrary we become in them vitiated and victims of the proper vice, consequently we pay ' ' caro' ' , we, the family, the society and the world where we live.


If breast-feeding conciliated love and suppression of the hunger, in the adolescence this already does not occur and two distinct necessities if they restore in the citizen. The anorxico behavior normally appears when it has offers of food, as well as of other objects, but it lacks the affection, that before was offered of form conjugated with the food. It still occurs of being offered affection, but with roupagem of object, as if the demand for affection was a objetal relation. For the anorxica, to refuse the food it means to refuse affective the enlaamento deficit. The hunger exists and many times occur the compulsory ingestion of food, but it is necessary to purge what it did not come of the adequate and desired form.

From there it comes the recurrent conciliation of anorexy with bulimia. Although Freud us has presented diverse concepts that much had helped in them to understand the anorexy, it never it dedicated an exclusive text to the subject, what it came to happen in publications of authors had succeeded who it. The conception of the anorexy from the affective enlaamento between mother and son, as well as the meaning of the feeding in the first relations you object are relatively recent boardings. M. Selvini-Palazzoli (1999) relates the difficulties in the relations objects with corporal experiences of pathological character. According to psychoanalytic, a relation emotionally disturbed mother-son provokes in the body of the son, imperfection, alienation sensations and of it uncontrols. These sensations, when restrained, they promote the ticket to act, by means of anorxicas behaviors. Such assertive ones lead them it the sistmico character of the anorexy, that has, doubtlessly, start half end in the obstacles of the familiar romance. Especially in it would histeria, the symptom is an important form to effect a demand and it has the function to express a question of the citizen, however, is inherent to the histrica to infer the proper answers in order to support the lack of the satisfaction of its desires and, in the anorexy, he is proven that the demand is in the dimension of the desire, dismisses what it of the necessity place.